Dream or reality it's all the same

Perhaps the need to create a more interesting life causes dreams and fantisy to seem so very real. So real that it feels like all sanity is about to be lost. Is it good to live in a dream or fantisy? Really isn't the goal in life to be happy? Maybe it's a different goal for everyone I don't know. I realise that most have the goal of making a lot of money, but for what? Does money really equal happiness? Maybe I suppose, it deffinately can. I know when I was so desparate for money it made every moment of my life hell ....not knowing when or how I was going to pay my bills. Now that I'm fine, I'm still not completely happy though. Something is missing, and that something is love. So maybe the goal in life is to have a complete life - money, love, and health. Well and of course I suppose some other things but they seem to fall in the money catagory.

To fill the void of love, I wonder if it's ok to live in a fantisy world. One of hope, pretending. Do we set ourselves up to fall when we do that? Or is it a way to cope?

My head is starting to hurt, way too much thinking.